THE HAPPINESS

when I see myself, I modify and old song...

Kadam Kadam Badhaye jaa khushi ke geet gaye jaa .....
ye jindgi hai apni tu apne pe lutaye jaa....
bhaad mein jaaye rastrawaad aur kaum doono hi....

This is the true thing which gives me happiness when I want it fully synchronize with my true environment. Happiness doesn't come with the meaning of bondage with the society which is telling one to behave according to them. It is to choose the society according to one's convenience.

I believe that the happiness(like energy) of word is conserved and it tries to maximize the feeling of equality (like entropy). One should not misinterpret this with the feeling of jealousy. If I am happy someone in the universe has to be sad according to the basis of conservation. Its just like the beginning to feel something ends with the end of the same feeling.

So I was talking about the feeling to be happy in terms of oneself only. Their is no need to let others being happy at account of one's happiness. It is like if a society tries to be happy on the cost of a person who is just an iconoclast of the society's customs. It leads to the small happiness in the some hearts but at the cost of sadness of a person's bigger sadness.

If a society is completely happy it means that their is nothing new is going on that will suddenly lose their interest in happiness. And they will become neutral to the feeling of being happy. And in the mean time when people will try to be happy their will be other society of same beings or other creatures who are sad by the same amount, or even the sadness may be distributed between different society.

So living in the society of opposite thoughts is nothing more than a burden. But in almost all cases one cannot just find a better option so one need to follow the rules and regulations of the same society. Even in such cases one must only feels for oneself.

If one like to follow the rules and regulations which one's ancestors have imposed on him/her it will be better for oneself, but still he one need to first to think about himself rather than for the society.